Until it is lost

It is a sad reality that most share a commonality that I am sure they had preferred not to. This will apply to almost everyone in one way or another. You see mostly young people, or older people acting like younger people in their vehicles squealing tires or burning rubber as they like to call it. It is all in good fun they say until it is time to buy new tires or worse. Perhaps they burned up the engine or transmission. Maybe they lost control and wrecked, and the vehicle is a total loss, or worse. Maybe they were injured, maybe someone else was injured, or worse. Maybe there was a fatality someone or some people lost their lives. So much was lost all in good fun. But until they come face to face with that loss nothing will change. Sometimes even then they are right back doing the same thing over again. In that case, you will just have to agree that you can not fix stupid.

You have a wife or a husband, boyfriend, or girlfriend that when you first met was everything you had ever dreamed of. Soon after your relationship is well on its way the person you were then is no more. You no longer feel you need to cater to their needs or listen to them when they are talking to you. You have better things to do now. You want to watch your favorite program on TV or maybe it is hunting season, or you want to go fishing instead. Maybe you don’t like cooking anymore and just want to order out. Then a day comes when you realized that person you took for granted being there every day isn’t there today, and now that you think about it hasn’t been there for several days. Then it all comes together when you are served the papers for a divorce, or your boyfriend or girlfriend starts spending time with someone that has more time for them. It isn’t until that which was once all that you ever dreamed of is no longer there that you realized what you have lost. I could write about so many scenarios just like these, but I’m betting you get the picture now. Do not wait until it is lost to do something different or stop doing something different that will cause that loss. Life and love are not rocket science, in fact, it is quite simple when you think about it. Only you can make that difference, do not wait until it is lost.


Simply my Thoughts
Dean Butler

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