How can you know all that is right or wrong for another’s relationship? How can you know if it is real love, infatuation, or just lust without them telling you so? For the most part, we cannot as much as we would like to, we still just cannot tell another person who they can or cannot love nor can we tell if it is true love that they experience. We cannot even in all honesty tell them if it is right or if it is wrong. Of course, any type of abuse is a whole other subject. You can use everything in your power or reach to try and make your point and the reality of it is… it is pointless. When it comes to love define wrong, define right. What may seem wrong in every way possible to you could be everything perfect to another. How can you say in all honesty it is wrong when you can’t possibly feel what they feel? No more so than you can prove to another what you believe to be right when they can’t feel what you feel. If you yourself have ever known true love or experienced being in love you should know this all too well. There are without question some that define love differently than others. People are unique in so many ways. We are not all exactly alike. We don’t love each other equally, treat each other exactly the same. We are more different than the four seasons. Therefore, everyone is not attracted to the same person the same way if at all. What appeals to you may make someone else wonder; what in the devil are you thinking? Yet their love and relationship maybe that which most only dream of having. This is not to say we can’t make mistakes in our quest for true love, granted you will more often than not. And we will also make mistakes in many other areas of our lives. You simply pick up the pieces and move forward taking the lesson learned to improve upon our next journey. When we are happy, and everything is perfect we become magnets attracting a multitude of friends and family all eager to be a part of our happiness. But where are these multitudes when we need them the most? When we are making important decisions in our lives and need their love and support? Where are these multitudes when we have fallen and need to be lifted? How can you claim to love or even care about another if you can’t be there for them whenever they need you not just for the best of times but all times? If you can’t help, why would you want to hurt? Love is a beautiful thing my friends nurture it help it grow don’t condemn it simply because you don’t think it’s right. What if it is everything right? Where will you be then? Most that find themselves trying to discourage others from taking a step toward a relationship are themselves in a relationship that could use that attention. If you truly care about someone in your life don’t discourage, encourage. Show them you love them, and you will be there for them good or bad right or wrong. Then and only then can you honestly say I love you and care about you.
Simply my thoughts
Dean Butler
