Unheard means that something has in fact not been heard. Once you hear it, however, it can never be unheard again. So if you tell someone you profess to love with all of your heart, “I hate you”, out of anger. Your love will never be what it once was, nor will it ever know what it could have been. You can say I love you ten thousand times and it will not remove the scar that you left by saying “I HATE YOU” only once. When you stop and think about it, if you truly love them… how could you, in all honesty, let such a cruel word as “hate” even enter your mind when you are thinking of the one you profess to love with all of your heart. How could you raise a hand to them, or lash out in anger when you have already broken their spirit, and especially their heart? How can you call them cruel hurtful names? How can you threaten them with their home, transportation, children, or anything that means something to them? How can you do these things and truly believe saying I’m sorry will make all the hurt go away? There is no acceptable excuse, not one. No one deserves to be treated in such away. Even out of anger, you don’t go up to someone and scream ugly names at them and try to FORCEFULLY make them do anything. You may find yourself at the losing end of a beating. There is a good chance there will be disagreements in most relationships. The solution you like may be debatable. A relationship is a partnership. You work things out; you don’t insist it is your way or the highway. PERIOD! How can you ever expect to know what your relationship can become when your partner is scared to be a partner? How can you possibly profess to love them and not be excited to have them want to be an active part of your relationship decisions? If in your delusional state of mind, you believe that screaming, cursing, calling each other names, and or putting your hands on one another in any harmful way makes you superior. I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but you failed miserably. If you can do these things and stand behind the words “I’m sorry” while professing to love someone, you have no inclination of what it truly means to love. You can blame these actions on anything you want to. You can blame it on alcohol, drugs, or even the way you were raised. When you hit your thumb with a hammer, you can blame that on the hammer too. But when the dust settles and the truth be known… you will discover that it is all you. If you can’t treat them right, and love them the way they deserve to be loved, STEP UP? Set them free, so they can find a partner, that is not too proud to be compassionate, caring, loving, and respectful to the ones they love. Someone that will show their partner what it is like to be loved the way they have loved. Soon YOU will be a forgotten memory. Unheard, and unknown.
Simply my thoughts
Dean Butler
