Indeed, if everything was as it should be you will never know anything more beautiful than the intimate moments with the one you “LOVE”. So many look at sex not as a passionate moment two people in love share, but more of a contest to see if they can get that which they are denied, or have more of it than another. In so many ways this most cherished act is taken with or without consent. A day may come that you too will be a parent with a beautiful daughter that loves you and leaves her life in your trusting hands for protection and guidance. You will grow angry and lust for the blood of the man that touches her in a disrespectful way. Yet in your youth, you are this villain you will soon hate. No matter how it is done, should she be drunk and unknowingly be willing, should you take her against her will, should a kiss lead to steaming hot passion and her willing consent. You will have stolen the most precious gift a woman can give. Are you so naive that you believe in some barbaric frame of mind, that being with a woman makes you a better man? Are the girls so naive that you believe being with a boy makes you more desirable to the one you wish to spend eternity with? As a father, how can you blame any boy for wanting to wrong your baby girl as you have wronged another? As a mother, how can you teach your baby girl the beauty of virginity when you throw yourself at anyone that will have you? You cannot use love as an excuse. For love, my friend comes from the heart not from beneath your clothes. We all have choices to make in life, some no doubt harder than others. In our youth, we can mold ourselves into the men or women we can be proud of. Or we can be those of which rumors are spread, a name is written upon a bathroom wall, a notch upon another bedpost. Is it so hard to think of tomorrow? Is it so hard to ask yourself if this is how I would want my child to be? Do you not wonder how you will fit into society? As easily as we think of the wrongs we do, so can we think of what is right. As young people, you pride yourselves on your vast knowledge. Yet in the simplest of life’s challenges, you fail miserably. So often are we hungry for attention from others sexually that we give no thought to the choices we make, let alone the consequences. We are indeed in control of our own destiny…. as we are also our……. demise.
Simply my thoughts
Dean Butler
